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"I took my son and left"
Another woman moved in with her SO a few days after they met and got pregnant a month later. Once the baby was born, her husband started to show his true colors. He was a deadbeat dad — couldn't find a job, wouldn't help around the house, and neglected the baby while the mother was at work. After less than three years of living together, she took her son and left. She writes, "My son doesn't remember his father and that's ok. He has someone in his life willing to love and raise him and tons of uncles for that male influence. I am a huge advocate for not getting married just because you're pregnant for obvious reasons."